Life Strategies

I just finished reading this book which I bought weeks ago. I got wonderful insights about life strategies and found great advice from successful people who themselves have experienced many failures but made it still to success despite the hardships. There are just so many issues that we have to deal with as we go through life every single day. There is the issue of financial contentment with what we currently earn and not being able to make more money. We sometimes feel frustrated because we don't get what we want. It seems like we are just going through the motions of our lives with no passion, no plan, and no goal. Or simply bored with ourselves? Some are silently enduring an emotionally barren life or marriage. Others are living a lonely existence with little hope for change. If you experience some of these, I want to share some strategies. Who knows it might work for you.

1. You either get it, or you don't.

Strategy: Become one of those who gets it.

2. You create your own experience.

Strategy: Acknowledge and accept accountability for your life.

3. People do what works.

Strategy: Identify the payoffs that drive your behavior and that of others.

4. You cannot change what you do not acknowledge.

Strategy: Get real with yourself about your life and everybody on it.

5. Life rewards action.

Strategy: Make careful decisions and then pull the trigger.

6. There is no reality; only perception.

Strategy: Identify the filters through which you view the world.

7. Life is managed; it is not cured.

Strategy: Learn to take charge of your life.

8. We teach people how to treat us.

Strategy: Own, rather than complain, about how people treat you.

9. There is power in forgiveness.

Strategy: Open your eyes to what anger and resentment are doing for you.

10. You have to name it before you can claim it.

Strategy: Get clear about what you want and take your turn.

Making Sense of Autism

I have read an article about an increase in the diagnosis of autism in children nowadays compared to the last decade. Earlier reports estimated only 1 child in 1,000 had autism. Now, it's 6 in 1,000. This higher frequency is alarming. Now I'm scared for my future child. Although I plan to have a baby two or three years from now, I'm concerned about my age and I hope it has nothing to do with it. For those who just gave birth, doctors recommend parents to learn about the normal growth and development of a child so they'll have the idea whether the child is on the right track. Make sure to have routine check-ups so the doctor could monitor the child's normal development especially when they reach 18-24 months old. Autism screening should be done by this specific age range. The sooner autism is diagnosed or the sooner the treatment begun, the better a child will do in the long run.

I Hate Rainy Days

It's been raining lately. I hate it. I can't do my everyday jogging routine in the park. You see, I'm very motivated to loose some weight because I'm looking forward to our Philippine vacation next year. I want to feel confident wearing sexy bathing suits! LoL! Boracay is on top of our list. It will be summer of 2009 for sure. With many great resorts in my hometown, I can't say no to frolicking with my hubby, family and friends in the beach. I'm a certified beach bum I admit. I really miss the seawaves also, the very calm seawater which I can hardly find here of course because of the surrounding big bodies of ocean.

Look Of The Year

Do you have the looks and confidence to join an online beauty contest? This Look of the Year is a worldwide contest and anyone can join if you feel like you got the looks and qualities. All you have to do is submit your best photo and create a great profile. Participants are judged by viewers who browse the net! Who knows you might get many votes from possible base fans out there! If you will not win, there’s still a big chance to be discovered by model agencies. Interested? Join now and let the viewers rate your beautiful winning photo!

http://www.lookoftheyear.com

Crazy Baseball Fans

These photos were taken last Saturday evening at Baltimore Camden Yards. My hubby loves sports so much. Since baseball season has just started and I know he's an avid fan of the sport, I decided to go with him watched one of the Orioles-Yankees games. Thank God we arrived early at the stadium and never had to deal with the long line at the gate for ticket inspection. The photos above really show how Americans love baseball games. There were 45,000 estimated crazy baseball fans attending the game on that one particular night. Luckily my hubby's favorite team won. It's crazy hearing people trash talking defending their respective teams. The stadium is like a great venue for a big party for sports fanatics. A sport for all ages where Americans gather as one big happy family.

Credit Offers

Are you planning to get a new credit card? Credit offers are everywhere. You might be getting many junk mails everyday about pre-approved offers but there are no guarantees of good rates of course. Even if it says pre-approved, it still doesn’t mean anything if you do not meet certain requirements in the actual application process. Besides, pre-approved offers might not match your spending habits depending on your credit needs. Choosing the best credit card deals in bestcredit.com is a great start if you are considering getting one. The website is not a credit card company but they can help you find the best offers and provide online bank applications. With a wide selection of top online bank offers, a good or bad credit history doesn’t matter. Regardless of your credit history, there are available options for you to choose from. All you have to do is compare their list of deals then submit your application online and rest assured of your personal information because they provide data protection. Each card offer has features uniquely designed for consumers that would surely match their spending patterns. Get answers on credit offers by visiting the website and expect immediate credit card care service from them.

Filipinos Abroad

My friend and I went malling today. We met two Filipino couples and got to chit chat with them for a while. They've been here for 30 years. It's really a wonderful feeling seeing some Pinoys abroad. I can't explain the instant closeness when conversation starts. Or maybe it's a cultural thing because we Filipinos are very warm, sociable and friendly. It's like you know one another for a long time already. A simple gesture of saying hello or even just a smile makes me feel home. I thought a great number of Filipinos are mostly based in California or Florida but I can see them here as well. And there's plenty of them!

The Smallest Horse

I got this pic from a friend's email. This small horse's name is Thumbelina. I really find it cute so I decided to post it here.

She may be small, a mere 17 inches and weighing only 60 pounds. But she is all horse. Thumbelina is officially recognized as the world’s smallest horse. Normally horses weight about 250lb and rise to a height of 34 inches when they are fully grown. But from the day she was born it was clear that tiny Thumbelina would never grow to that size. She weighed only 8lb – the size of a new-born baby when she was born. Eventually she grew to just 60lb. Her amazing size has been explained as dwarfism. This makes her a miniature of a miniature.